Materials things.
I have now lost 5 cameras in the last 4 years (the number jumped from 3 to 5 this week).
Why do we care so much about something that, in actuality, is not that important after all? [hmm… maybe it meant something to you or it cost a lot??]
I hope you read the title of this blog thinking to yourself: ‘what is she referring to?’ or ‘what is she talking about; I don’t care about material things.’ Because you see, I also should not care about material things… however; I tend to get attached to material things at an extreme level when they mean something special to me. In fact, when something has a special meaning to me, I can't let it go.
I’m sitting at the Singapore airport right now, at 5AM, simply crushed. Simply devastated. So I have to
share with you my grief… 1. Because you actually won’t believe what happened, and 2. Because I can’t stop thinking about it and need to get over it so that I can write more about Singapore and Malaysia on other posts.
For those of you who don’t know, I tend to lose things quite often and also tend to be nonchalant and careless about where I place my belongings when I’m out and about. Unfortunately, we sadly live in a world where there exists evil willed people who make people like me a target for their instant gratification.
Oh you guys! I had such an amazing time in Singapore and Malaysia during my vacation for the past 6 days. Why do bad things have to happen right during such an amazing time? The experience was so fulfilling, sensational, fun, and more, that little things like
getting pick pocketed (the point of this post) was disregarded. Disregarding something like losing a possession is a huge accomplishment on my part. However,
when you get pick pocketed a second time, you tend to give in a little more to the grief and ponder 'W T F'. It’s a sad story people. I just pick pocketed twice during my trip to Singapore and Malaysia, let alone for the same fricken item!!
The trip was unbelievable, and I truly can say it was one of the best times of my life. I traveled mostly alone, besides the Friday night when I met with Devrim, one of the friends that I look up to the most and had not seen in 4 years. Albeit traveling alone, I was not alone one bit! That’s what I love about traveling alone and why I choose to travel alone most of the time… you end up meeting incredible people and getting to know a side of the culture you had not expected. I met the coolest people in
Singapore, and most importantly, I met some of the most fun and inspiring people in my life in
Malaysia, who all showed me the true way to enjoy their culture and just a great time in their country. After the first night in Malaysia, I decided to lure my brother into going back to Malaysia with me so that we can re-live the great time together.
So here I was, having a great time in Singapore. Was hanging out in Chinatown, when, 2 minutes after taking the last picture I noticed my camera was gone as I attempted to take the next picture. I did nothing in those 2 minutes but walk along. I stayed at that mall for 1.5 hours thinking back, tracing every step… The funny thing is that the chances of having something stolen in Singapore is slim to none. Of course it had to happen to me. Crime rate in Singapore is very low due to the strict gov’t laws. I went to every store nearby where I took the last picture, in hopes that the camera fell out of my bag. After some time, I remembered there was someone following me. You know when you notice someone looking at you, but you’re so in the moment that you don’t think twice about it? I just wasn't careful about the way I was holding my purse (opened and behind a huge pillow I had purchased).
Well, I became numb when it dawned on me that I had lost all my amazing pictures from the last 5 days (including some in Tokyo). I mean, the fact that I went to Singapore partially to meet Devrim because he's so hard to catch (always traveling around) and I no longer had the pictures we took togeter on Friday was already enough grief, let alone pictures with all the people I met in Singapore and Malaysia, from Thailand and more. After little thought and consideration, I ended up buying the same exact camera again because I couldn’t handle the fact that I had lost it. It was too valuable to me, not only sentimentally but also by worth (US$300+) – The same
pink Canon Digital IXUS 80 IS that I had purchased with my friend Shivs in San Francisco 2 months ago, but without the very fun pictures of people that touched my life over the last 6 days. Yes; I actually bought the same expensive camera again, because I couldn’t handle the fact that I had lost it. Unbelievable, you say? Well, how about you keep reading about how someone stole the camera I bought (a second time)! Anyways, the lady at the camera shop gave me an incredible deal on the one I had and I had to get it. She sold it to me for $250, with a 4MB memory card included.
[Pause] Oh my god. I just read my ‘Chinese Astrology’ on Facebook a moment ago and look what it says:
“You may fall victim of robbery: watch over your belongings, beware not to forget or lose important documents.” I’m telling you, people. This happens to me all the time.
I should start a fund. The ‘let’s chip in and give Rita a few dollars, so that the next time she loses a camera she can use it to buy the next one.’ Maybe I’ll put Google AdSense ads on my blog to profit for this cause.
Well, when my camera was stolen, I was pretty sad so some friends I had met from Singapore all said for me to forget about it, and drove me around Singapore to every place that I had gone to before losing the camera so that we could take the same pictures over. It was awesome, and we took even better pictures, of all of us in them going crazy. I later went to Malaysia to meet even more people, and took the best pictures I’ve taken in a long time… really showing Malaysia, the people, the food, of course the nightlife, and just having fun. I completely forgot about the first camera being stolen, and instead tried to forget the $300 charge to my bank account.
My flight is today is at 7:15am back to Tokyo, and I decided to stay up through the night. I came back from Malaysia at around 9PM and went back to the resort where all my things were held. I got ready, and went out to Singapore’s nightlife one last memorable time. During the last 10 minutes I had in Singapore before taking a cab back to my resort to get my bags and to go to the airport – well, what can I say? Unfortunately I did not have a happy ending. At the last 10 minutes of my trip the ultimate shitty incident happened that absolutely crushed me… I asked someone to take ONE last picture with people I met from all over the world. The guy (Indian surprisingly) took the picture. All of a sudden, a few people hugged me and said goodbye… I got distracted and didn’t think about asking for my camera back. The guy must have taken off with it.
Anyways……… I’ve had some bad luck with cameras. What surprises me the most out of the above is that this is the third time I was able to top the ultimate crapy experience losing a camera in 2005 in
Thailand, when all my belongings
except my camera and the clothes on my body were stolen from my bungalow in the island of Koh Pangan, and someone stole the camera at the very end of my crazy 3-month survival Thailand experience, where I took pictures with people who helped me get to Bangkok by bus, boat, others who bought me meals, etc pretty much a unique once in a lifetime experience… I lost the camera when I placed it on a table at the US Embassy and looked away for a moment. All my clothes, money, credit cards, driver’s license, Green Card, passport – were all gone. All I had were the pictures that the guy stole, you know?
The second time I lost a camera was after a trip to
Ultra Music Festival in Miami with close friends, where we met many famous DJs and were in sick parties. That time, I set my camera on an end table while sitting on the couch, and then seconds later the camera was gone.